Cintamani ([info]evil_chibi) wrote,
@ 2008-06-24 20:53:00
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Current mood: and really disappointed

while I'm still drunk-ish

That's why I can still type. yay.


Starting from Saturday.

Out with Kyna and Skippy. We're having a great time going to Byron Bay, just - JUST - after the taste of the pill (they would be so fucking awesome if they tasted good) has faded, Alana calls from my home phone.
Tells me to call when I get back. Now me being me, I'm all, 'yeah, sure'. Having been reminded of one of my most favorite people in the world I was singing her praises all the way back to Murwillumbah. When I get back all flying I have this thought; 'I'm going to be so hard to deal with when I come down'.
So I don't call. I mean I wanted to see her and Mel (who I hadn't seen/talked to in a long long time), but I wanted to spare them my coming down time.

Anyway long story short; because everyone is coming back, I'll post more in comment if you want to know the whole night.
They come around, I go with them instead of staying with Kyna, Skippy and by this stage my Dad.
I get water poured on me during my down (when I'm falling asleep) and I get really angry. Start yelling I'm going to beat the guys face in.
I calm down a bit. Tell Alana to keep him away from me, or I will beat his face in. She then tells me; QUOTE, "You can't do that, he's my brother {not blood related btw}, if you do that our friendship is over"

I was shocked, REALLY hurt, and REALLY REALLY angry. So I left. Told Mel I didn't want to hear from Alana for the next week.


Tonight.

Tuesday. Having a few with some other friends. I decide to try and make up. So I tell Kim to call Alana and tell her I want to explain.

Alana says on no uncertain terms (we tried a few times), no. She's had a shit day and doesn't want to talk to me.

More - including the part where I was a dick and maybe deserved getting water poured on me when I A. Have more time and B. Am more coherent.

I would just like to say that I'm not angry, just really, really hurt. I wouldn't do that to her no matter how shit a day I had been having or how angry I was at her - so why do it to me?


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[info]skye_rayne
2008-06-25 09:11 am UTC (link)
I would like to say Tami, though it may not be my place. That is it a simple matter of mis-communication and not seeing the others point of view.

Want to hear my example?

Last night, I ask jokingly if I could talk to Adam on your computer.
That being the scenario.
What proceeding, was you to reply 'No, I don't let ugly people talk through my computer.'

Now, after original feelings of serious hurt, I thought about it.
Yes, I did ask while you were already doing something. Yes, I should have not taken it to heart considering the past week you've had, and how hurt you have been.

I just would have liked if you would have been..a little more delicate about something *I* care so much about.
Yes, you are my friend. And I won't hold it against you. I mean ,everyone has shitty days :p
Just, know it did hurt. And, I'd prefer if you didn't refer to someone I love as 'Fugly'. Because really, I don't see him that way. And, I guess I just want to share the happiness it brings me.

Going off topic, just saying. Mis-comunication is a bitch.

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[info]anonymiseyaface
2008-07-02 11:18 am UTC (link)
She was calling you fugly, if that makes you feel any better. Yes, misunderstandings can be issues...

What Kim may have been getting at is that, quite bluntly, the world doesn't revolve around you. I understand you getting upset about the water thing- I've reacted worse in a similar situation. I even understand that you were upset about her taking his side, however they were playing pranks so I understand her side of it too.

If I was Kim I would have said, "No, I'm not getting involved, call her yourself", but that wouldn't be an excellent example of mediation skills. I think it would be a good idea to, if you haven't already done so, try calling her and acknowledge/understand the reasons she's upset at you and express your reasons for being upset at her.

*phew*. My ring finger is getting stiff, so... ohh yeh, I can ride my bike with no handlebars, no handlebars, no handlebars... *falls off the edge of a bank*

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[info]skye_rayne
2008-07-02 12:08 pm UTC (link)
Actually, she was calling my boyfriend Fugly, Jackass.

Secondly, I was calling Alana BEFORE Tami asked to talk to her.

Thirdly, why are you still talking to people who clearly detest that you still exist?

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(Anonymous)
2008-07-03 03:56 am UTC (link)
1. No, I disagree.
2. Congratulations on such an irrelevant and inferior comment. You got my round of applause.
3. Because you touch yourself at night.

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[info]evil_chibi
2008-07-03 08:22 am UTC (link)
Until this moment I have been ignoring your existence and continuous (though unwanted and unwarranted) input into my lj.
But, at this moment in time, I must; however unfortunate the task, acknowledge you and ask two questions (possibly rhetorical - so don't feel any pressure to answer).

1. Why don't you go outside and play hide-and-go fuck yourself?
and
2. No one likes you, why are you still here?

Now, how about you leave me alone? Didn't you notice that I didn't friend you back?

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[info]skye_rayne
2008-07-03 11:33 am UTC (link)
So Seb has been harassing you to eh?

I wonder where you can purchase anthrax *ponders*

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[info]evil_chibi
2008-07-03 02:32 pm UTC (link)
The internet probs. :D
Shall I look for it?

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[info]evil_chibi
2008-07-03 08:28 am UTC (link)
It wasn't mis-communication, but that's fine. I'm still pissed off at how she's handled this sitch.

1. Yes, I was doing something,
but
2. I was just being a snarky bitch. Feel free to smack me over the head - I'll get over it. :D

Soz.

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[info]evil_chibi
2008-07-03 02:33 pm UTC (link)
:)

Yeah. Castration sounds like the way to go. Some people just aren't meant to procreate.

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[info]skye_rayne
2008-07-04 01:42 am UTC (link)
Hmm, anthrax or castoration.
Why not both?

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[info]evil_chibi
2008-07-05 10:34 am UTC (link)
Castor Oil.

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[info]anonymiseyaface
2008-07-05 02:50 pm UTC (link)
Spiro Agnew.

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